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Squared Circles

Posted September 27th, 2006 in Reflections by M

Within the last two months or so I have heard of some mysterious concept that I am finding great difficulty in swallowing.

Apparently, there is something called “positive tribalism“. Every time I hear this I struggle to know which way to react. Generally it is one or a combination of the following:

  1. Huh?
  2. What
  3. WHAT?!
  4. WTF??

I have tried very hard to bend my mind around this concept and failed.

Every time I hear that phrase it occurs to me that it might just one of the most most ridiculous things I have ever heard, chiefly because if there WAS such a thing, then by logical extension there would certainly exist mind boggling things like positive bigotry and positive racism.

This strikes me as the very clever shadow puppeting that allows people to sneak in elitist bigotry masquerading as pride in one’s culture into making unfortunate ridiculous crass mind numbingly stupid comments like “it is time for one of our own to be in State House”.

By and large, people who purport to be “agitating for the rights of  their people” or “fighting for their community” or “fostering political unity of their community” by and large tend to be talking through their nether regions.

And what is this pride in culture anyway? (Nebulous canned responses about pride in one’s roots can be left at the door). What exactly is it to be proud of one’s culture?

Which further beggars the question, if this “pride in culture” is what is being abused left right and center, and used as the cloak over our elitism, so much so that it is becoming increasingly apparent that the more we identify ourselves as Kikuyu, Luo, Meru, Giriama, Luhya, Kisii, Kamba etc, the less and less we identify ourselves as Kenyans, what use is it?

Until human beings develop the emotional and intellectual capacity enough to really celebrate our differences, and not just talk the cliche, we need to give serious thought to leaving our Kikuyu-ness and our Luo-ness,  our Kenyan-ness and our Tanzanian-ness, our Israeli-ness and our Palestinian-ness, our African-ness and our Asian-ness, our Blackness and our Whiteness, our Christianity and our Islam at the door and walk in what we all are — humans.

So tell me all about this “positive tribalism“. Because as of now — I don’t believe a damn word.

Blessed Union Of Souls – I Believe
  • http://toiyoi.wordpress.com toiyoi

    M, you must have made the comment on my post before reading fully what i was saying (which among other things, Ben Dictators are bad idea).

    Whatever do you mean? You said no such thing. Scroll up and re-read your own comment

    Correction: Palestine is not a country, in fact if it were, the animosity would exist, BUT it would be country-country animosity, which is a normal thing in this world and precisely why the UN exists. The UN is not meant to deal with Samburu-Kikuyu animosity, for example.

    The point I am trying to make is that putting people into different countries is no panaecea for hostility.

    Also, your roadmap to peace is amazing.
    - Convert to country
    - Get UN to sort out the animosity

    I am deeply skeptical with regards to the chances of success of such

  • http://chondima.blogspot.com Sarah

    Will someone please answer my hypothetical question (ok, maybe not so hypothetical), we have company X and for the last 10+ years, most of the people were from tribe y, currently tribe w has taken over governance or leadership of company x and now wants to promote all tribe w people qualified or not because they feel that w’s were neglected in the past and now they are ENTITLED to better jobs, no body cares if tribe y was doing a good job, if you are not from tribe w you are out of a job SORRY.
    Is this tribal bashing if we say this is wrong and people should be employed etc depending on qualifications and actually knowing and performing the job satisfactorily etc.

    Just because you are from my tribe should you get better privileges than anybody else because we were suppresed in the past?
    Tribe is the problem, we all agree on that (well most of us do) so if this is the case then every tribe needs a turn to balance things out right? But where will this lead us?

    Bottom line if any one group feels they are entitled to better things or being first in whatever it is then we have lots of negativity and resentment brewing and it doesn’t matter if this group is larger than the other groups!
    Joe, “to use ur american example its like african americans complaining there are too many whites in government -yet we all know whites are a majority in population”

    Interesting statement Joe, are you forgeting the slavery years and how this ended up being the case?

  • donworry

    By all accounts M has held his own and demonstrated clearly what is wrong with the tribal card if we are to engage in any meaningful debate about the problems facing Kenya and where we go from here. Ukabila must die and of that we agree 100%. I hold to that truth like no other.

    My “positive tribalism” take was as a result of a simple misunderstanding where I imagined(not having read the source) that the author of that particular contradictory term was advocating a kind of affirmative action and a rebalancing of past wrongs by previous regimes.

    Sitting here by the ringside watching M do a battle of wits with an unarmed man has been……..educational.

  • anonymous wanjiku

    Yes we are all Kenyans.

    But, belonging to certain ethnic groups can be a disadvantage.
    Bearing in mind some geographic boundaries are also tribal,

    A woman in the North Eastern province is more likely to be circumcised, less likely to have access to a hospital, less likely to receive antenatal care and less likely to have her baby immunised when compared to a woman from Central province.

    So to say we are all Kenyans and should focus less on agitating for the rights of our people is to ignore that there are massive disparities, based not only on the usual socioeconomic status but also on tribal background.

    The first step to making things more equitable is to recognise that some tribes are disadvantaged, no matter what mind numbingly stupid statements are used to express this.
    So is an MP from the N.E province justified in agitating for the rights of his people….HECK YEAH!

    So here’s one vote for positive tribalism( in the right context of course)

    Source: Kenya Demographic and Health Survey 2003 preliminary report

    Ciku

  • http://chrenyan.wordpress.com Chrenyan

    THIS KIND OF UNDERSTANDING IS WHAT WE ALL NEED IN LARGE DOSES:

    The Kenya National Commission on Human Rights (KNCHR) chairman, Mr Maina Kiai, has cautioned people against being used by politicians, who invoke tribal sentiments to push private agenda.

    Kiai yesterday said wananchi have recoiled into their ethnic shells, giving politicians room to hide behind their communities when they are faced with allegations of corruption.

    Kiai said the Maasai stood behind Kajiado North MP, Prof George Saitoti, when he moved to court to defend himself over the Goldenberg scandal while the Meru rallied behind former Cabinet ministers Mr Daudi Mwiraria and Mr Kiraitu Murungi when the Kenya Anti-Corruption Commission started investigating them over the Anglo Leasing scandal.

    Kiai said this in a speech read on his behalf by Mr Godana Doyo, a commissioner with the KNCHR, during a graduation for paralegal officers at Tom Mboya Labour College in Kisumu. He asked paralegal officers to sensitise people to overcome the culture of “it is our turn to eat”.

  • http://chrenyan.wordpress.com Chrenyan

    @VituVingiSana
    I hear you on Tanzania. I feel Tanzania, socially, are a century ahead of Kenya. It shows even in their person-person interaction. It is probably possible to be robbed politely at gunpoint in Tanzania. Ujamaa set them back economically, but it had GREAT advantages. It is one of the great tragedies of East African history that we did not use our capitalism to better ourselves economically, as much as they used their socialism to better themselves socially – in all likelihood we shall probably NEVER be as socially mature as they are, as the comments on this post have shown.

    I once visited Zambia and it was SO refreshing to be in a country where politics can actually exist sans-tribe issues. I cannot even begin to explain just how good that is. There, the main issue is whether the man is doing a good job or not.

    By the way:
    Our neighbours are snapping at our heels economically (higher growth rates, in 2003 investors put $82 million in Kenya compared to $283 million in Uganda and $248 million in Tanzania). Uganda, by the way, was embroiled in a Civil War in the same time as Ujamaa had the ascendancy in Tanzania. And yet to look at these figures, one would think it was we who had embraced socialism, we who had a Civil War (God forbid).

    This probably deserves a post.

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    What it is about Kenyans makes us Kenyans full stop.

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    “unhappy with Anglo Leasing, unhappy with corruption in KRA, unhappy with MP’s perks (Standard today), unhappy with ministerial largesse, unhappy with the potholes and traffic jams on the way home due to incompleted bypasses”

    Me too.

    But i am also happy with

    “Increasing opportunities at NSE, a cleaner town, tarmacked Nrb city, working parastatals, a better civil service, shamed corrupt leaders, job opportunities”

    Thats enough reason

    I do not agree entirely. These are things that me, as a Kenyan, am entitled to. I should not give thanks to the benevolence of the Kibaki government for giving me things that are mine as a right!
  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    M said:                               

    You’ll have to try harder than that! Every last politician in this country (including Kibaki, Michuki, Karume, Karua, Mungatana etc) are fighting for power. Power is a very much an objective in Kenyan politics.

    It is therefore two faced to use that as a reason not to vote for Raila and then turn around and use it as a reason to vote for Kibaki! SAME DIFFERENCE

    If no other person is given to me to vote for apart from Raila & Co, i will vote for Kibaki. What do you want me to do? He is the better devil.

    I want you to tell me why you will vote for Kibaki, especially since you said

    The only reason i would never vote for Raila is not that he is luo, But he has no other agenda apart from being in power and so is he a tribalist!

    There is no logical progression between looking for power and being a tribalist. That is too much of a stetch.

    This sounds to me suspiciously like tribe is a factor in your voting patterns. I hope that is not the case!

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    I am sorry to post all these comments.

    There is one thing people do not understand

    “Kenyans are tribalists; the only difference is whichever tribe is in power appears more tribal”

    I will tell you for sure today in a Luo law firm i know in town, all their staff is Luo. Another Kikuyu one i know has staff who are kikuyu. And so is Kisii, Meru, Kamba more likely to employ their own.

    why?

    Trust and Confidentiality.

    ==)) That is the most RIDIKLUS thing I have ever heard. What do you mean trust and confidentiality? Are you trying to tell me that Kikuyu thieves will not steal from Kikuyu houses? Or Luo husbands will not lie to Luo wives? Or Kalenjin boyfriends will not cheat on Kalenjin girlfriends?

    I don’t know if I should laugh or cry. My dear you cannot possibly be serious!!!!

    Because many persons are afraid to lose their trade secrets and trust their own. As i said in this post, tribalism has its roots and the thing is we must introduce a mechanism to deal with it. http://sylkwan.blogspot.com/2006/02/we-are-going-long-way.html#comments.

    I experienced tribalism at the hands of Kalenjins and Luos. Yet the same people will turn around and say Kikuyus are tribalists. The thing is that it is defeatist to say other people are tribalists and yet do the same thing when your turn arrives. Or is it tribalism when it is done by a Kikuyu and Not You?

    Tribalism is tribalism is tribalism. Full stop. Whether you tribe has 3 people or 3 million is absolutely irrelevant

    Having identified that tribalism is a bad thing, why don’t we have a commission to deal with the issue. Just like KACC.

    Setting aside the fact that I have little faith in commissions, KACC is not the most reassuring of examples to use.

    People need to change their mindsets. Themselves. If indiviudal people change then the society as a whole will change

  • Dusty

    M… interesting post. To me, there’s nothing positive about tribalism because the thinking that underlies tribalism is “my tribe is superior to yours”.

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    To answer all your questions M;

    I do not agree entirely. These are things that me, as a Kenyan, am entitled to. I should not give thanks to the benevolence of the Kibaki government for giving me things that are mine as a right!

    While i agree it is your right. The former Govt denied us all these rights; and there is nothing we did about it!!!! Is it ok to say you enlist in the Kenyans who want to see something bad in everything. Most African countries are in some war or another and we are not; Thanks To Moi for at least did something to avoid it.

    If you are in a refurbished restaurant that now has good food, clean tables, and uniformed waiter and then you notice cockroaches on the floor, I fail to see why I should keep quiet about the roaches because everything else is good!

    It will be a cold day in hell before I become complacent enough to accept mediocrity in the guise of leadership purely because “at least Kibaki is better than Moi”.

    There is no logical progression between looking for power and being a tribalist. That is too much of a stetch.

    This sounds to me suspiciously like tribe is a factor in your voting patterns. I hope that is not the case!

    Tribalism or not; i think Kibaki is the better evil than Raila & Co. If i have tribalism aspersions then in my judgement at the moment are silent. I am looking at what i have gained versus what i can lose as a person. I have gained nothing from a Kikuyu presidency apart from what i put my mind and efforts to doing. Like if i invest well, i get returns. That really matters to me!!!!!

    I am waiting for you to tell me why is Kibaki a better evil! Tell me

    If i was a tribalist; i would support Uhuru for ODM presidency but i am and will not. Enough said

    Not nearly! We both know Uhuru is a non-starter both for the ODM slot AND the presidency as a whole so there is no logical sense in backing him.

    People need to change their mindsets. Themselves. If individual people change then the society as a whole will change

    I fully agree with you. But just as the case maybe changing people’s mindset is a story for another day. Let us try a commission and if it doesn’t work we move on to something different. Because tribalism and corruption is different though both hurts the economy.

    Tell me. What exactly will this commission do?

    What i am saying is when i am a Kikuyu as i am; I am discriminated against by others. Asians, and all other tribalists in Kenya. I hear some people

    Personally I think going out of your way to identify yourself as Kikuyu, or whatever tribe you are is of dubious gain.

    AAND you have left two things hanging

    1) How does seeking political power make you a tribalist?
    2) Please o please o please explain using diagrams your argument of “trust and confidentiality”, and if it was in fact a joke.

    “Hii Kikuyu hii?” and i am dumbfounded. Same applies to others. It is a national tragedy!!!!!

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    AAND you have not answered one of my question — how does seeking political power make you a tribalist?

    The reason why Raila is a tribalist

    1. Whoever he surrounds himself

    2. Choosing tribal leaders e.g. Kalonzo is meant to bring the Kamba vote, Ruto the Kalenjin vote et al

    3. Because he is tribal

    Number one and two apply just as much to Mwai Kibaki! Ngilu was to bring in the Kamba vote, Wamalwa the Luhya vote. Raila the Luo Vote. Balala the coastal vote. As for number 3 … you cannot answer the question “why is he a tribalist” with “he is tribal”.

    Elaborate how:
    1) He is tribal
    2) How his “tribalism” is absent in the others (Kibaki, Kombo, etc), such that using the same benchmarks Raila is a tribalist and the others are not

    Need for power

    1. Using whatever dubious means it is you are using to get to power

    2. Use and Dump: that is parties

    3. It is obvious.

    Again, number 3 is not a useful answer. How is it obvious?! And also, the same arguments apply equally to Kibaki and all the others. The dubious MOU was signed by Kibaki as well. Kibaki himself has used and dumped parties just as hard as Raila. KANU -> DP -> NAK -> NARC -> NARC-Kenya. So try harder.

    In summary I fail to see how you have differentiated Raila from Kibaki. The same standards should apply to everyone.

    I still await answers to my questions:

    1) How does seeking political power make you a tribalist?
    2) Please o please o please explain using diagrams your argument of “trust and confidentiality”, and if it was in fact a joke.

    It will be a cold day in hell before I become complacent enough to accept mediocrity in the guise of leadership purely because “at least Kibaki is better than Moi”.

    That is not what i mean. I appreciate the efforts. That is it.

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    One more last thing.

    Just because Kibaki has not performed par excellence doesn’t make Raila better than him. As in the better evil issue.

    Hey hey hey! Tafadhali Please! Kindly note that nowhere have I said Raila is better. NOWHERE!!

    It would be a different ball game, if it was Anyang Nyongo who is seeking leadership. Because we know Anyang Nyongo is a brilliant man. For me Raila is too unstable to run this country!!!! And the fact he would want to be the alter-for Kibaki is in itself unbelievable

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    I wish i could draw.

    This is it young man

    The reasons why people tend to associate more with people of their tribe is because they think they can trust persons of their own tribe. Something like tribonophobia (fear of persons who are not your tribesmen)

    Illustrations;

    Due to upringing of persons in a certain community (you know M you are a Nairobian thats why you don’t understand thesee things) are brought up being told “Ooh you see Kikuyus will marry you and then go with your children when the marriage is over) therefore many guys i know even after they grow up will continue with that mentality.

    You may be told and incalculated in your head that members of a certain people will steal from you if you employ them. M you cannot ignore that many people grow up in their tribal areas. For example in my village, there is no even a Meru living there. So everyone in my village associates with persons of the village and even when they go to provincial schools, they rarely integrate with persons of outside their tribe.

    You may wish people were brighter than that but they are not!!!

    I hope that is over now.

    Ah! The joys of logic! There is a pair of logical fallacies in what you have just said:
    1
    a) M is in Nairobi
    b) Since M is in Nairobi, he must have been brought up in Nairobi

    2
    a) M is in Nairobi
    b) People in Nairobi have no comprehension of the goings on elsewhere
    c) Therefore M has no comprehension of the goings on elsewhere

    I sure do miss logic classes….

    But I digress. Since you don’t know me at all, where I was born, where I grew up and at what point I came to Nairobi, or if indeed I was ever not in Nairobi, you are in no position to judge what I can and cannot understand.

    I agree with those sentiments. As a matter of fact if you search you will find the same expressed several times in this blog.

    Your original comments sounded to me like “people hire others from their tribe because they trust them”. I hotly dispute this notion. What you have just said is “people hire others from their tribe because they think they can trust them.” Different kettle of fish.

    Q1: 100 Marks. Do you think going out your way to identify yourself as a Kikuyu / Kamba / Luo / Kalenjin contributes to this state of affairs?

    In summary I fail to see how you have differentiated Raila from Kibaki. The same standards should apply to everyone

    I do not see why you should differentiate the two for they are worlds apart. I am just saying they are NOT substitutes!

    Shadow boxing, my dear, shadow boxing! Tell me how they are worlds apart. I do not see how they are worlds apart. All the illustrations you gave about Raila apply just as much to Kibaki so NO, I am not convinced that they are worlds apart
  • Kagz

    Ati tribonophobia = fear of persons who are not your tribesmen !!!!!!!!!!!!!………….and Raila is a tribalist because he is tribal !!!!!!!

    MY CONCLUSION: On the 8th day, God made Kenyans.

  • http://chrenyan.wordpress.com Chrenyan

    Now by the way, I am not saying the present Government has done nothing. We have seen growth that is worth writing home about for the first time in a long, long time. We do have a cleaner capital city. The capital markets have been an increasingly attractive place to invest. I think that there has been some amount of job creation, even though it may be stretching it a bit to say that the Government has met its target of 500 000 jobs every year since 2003, making a grand total of 1.5 million newly-working Kenyans and counting. Tourism is up beyond all imagination compared to five years ago. There’s a list here, too.

    BUT. And it is a very big BUT. There is lots that has gone wrong. Anglo-Leasing didn’t have to happen, but it did. MP’s certainly didn’t need to raise their salaries. This was one of the first things they did. What we need to do is to compare ourselves with what we CAN BE, not what we USED TO BE or HOW MUCH WORSE WE COULD BE. And this is why so many Kenyans are disgruntled. We’d be behaving ignorant and foolishly not to.

    How many of us can remember the euphoria and goodwill with which this Government swept to power in 2003? The vehemence with which our President spat out the term “ufisadi” (corruption) at his inauguration speech sent delicious shivers down our spines, and shivers of an altogether different nature down the spines of the corrupt. Or so we believed. We allowed hope to rise in our breasts. Bribe-seeking policemen flagging down matatus would be descended upon by none other than the commuters, informed in no uncertain terms that this was the “New Kenya” and that bribe-taking was not to be sanctioned from now henceforth, and would finally be firmly dispossessed of any bribes they had erstwhile taken while on duty that day.

    This is what we can be. And it was all over in 6 months.

    By 2004, rumours of mega-corruption stretching into the current regime were making their rounds. Now, stories like what I’ve mentioned above seem like a fairy-tale.

    Comparing ourselves now with ourselves under Moi should be BENEATH us. I hope this is not something President Kibaki does. Surely we should have far, far loftier ideals than beating our own performance under Mr. Moi’s regime. That should not even be a goal by our standards.

    Comparing ourselves with how much worse we could be is even worse. This is a road we have travelled before. When Moi used to present Kenya as an island of peace in a region of instability, we nodded happily and said “Ndio baba”. Meanwhile we were incarcerated without trial. The Nyayo torture chambers flourished. We suffered through Goldenberg-like crimes against humanity. Our (parents’) salaries quietly underwent division by a factor of at least 5 due to massive printing of currency to fund election campaigns.

    We still nodded.

    Now we are being asked to agree that NARC has done well, when there is so much, so much, friends, that has gone wrong.

    And some of us are still nodding.

    At this rate, we are going to run ourselves out of unfavourable examples to compare ourselves with. Before we sound the bottom of even this particular barrel, why can’t we set ourselves some reasonable goals and get cracking on meeting them?

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    You can only bang on a brick wall for so long ….but am glad out of this whole issue people like Chrenyan realise the dangers of backing people into a corner and continuing to insinuate that its all of us against them.

    Grivances have to have better ways of being articulated rather than criminalizing and demonizing ONE community for all your problems. Shameless promotion oF Opposition politics should be left of of these issue (just as it should have been left out of the constitution issue).A hardline stand will only be met with an even harder hardline stand.(you can read what you want into it)

    To M ,railamaniacs and all other ODM youthwingers. i have a kyuk saying for you .”mweke uria mwekaga mwarakara” translated Stop making noise and kicking up dust . if you want to do something do it !talk is cheap anybody can do it .do something

    If only you could emulate your own words! Shut up and do something yourself!! What are you waiting for? Get on with it!

    And as for your not so subtle slights … It is not fair for me to take on someone half equipped in a battle of wits

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    Kihii

    =)) Insults? Not annoyed yet. Try harder, my boy. HARDER!! And fast. Before the spirit of Yom Kippur ends!
  • c-s

    have to budge in here. The way i see it is being of a certain tribe should not make you feel superior than the other after being a luo or kyuk or whatever does not add anything value to your life. But being of little minds akina Joe’s of this country are hallucinating by “one” of their own being in state house or whenever, but still si we can see all kyuks are in statehouse governing Kenya for all we know Joe could be the one incharge of loo warming commitee

  • http://kadhat.blogspot.com egm

    Chrenyan has given some very good words concerning how we gauge ourselves. If all we aim for is to be better than those around us or those that came before us, then surely, mediocrity will be the order of the day. If, however, we have a benchmark we can aspire up to and then actually work towards it, we would be miles ahead. As I was typing this, it occurred to me that these same benchmarks would be hard to specify. As in all things, what would be the frame of reference? I posit that we can look at other places, see what works there, and work towards that. How different is this from what I started off stating? Well, instead of comparing ourselves to those that are worse off than us, we are doing so with those that are better off than us, and finding ways to work towards achieving their status. And once we get to their level, this shouldn’t mean we have arrived. We should be constant in our self-assesement to see if that is the best we can be, or if there is an even higher goal to strive for.

    Ideals are called that because these are things that, realistically speaking, cannot be attained. That does not mean we shouldn’t make every effort to try and achieve them. For when you strive towards an ideal, then you will end up at a place much better than just mere mediocrity for sure. Why aim for the moon when the sun beckons?

  • http://www.kenyanmusings.blogspot.com KM

    Bringing me out of the woodwork…I read the comments mpaka it got to the point where I have lost the gist of this discussion….sigh.

    I will say this….I am Kenyan first, Meru/Maasai/Kikuyu next…Tell me, where would I gravitate towards if it came to splitting where my ancestors hailed from?

    This is sad. This discussion is sad. It is sad to see that in this day and age, people still habor retrogressive idealogies, mediocre to say the least, where things are run by ‘where I come from’ rather than what I can deliver, what I can do, my integrity.

    And I fail to see how one can honestly identify themselves by tribe, even engage in chest thumping/ thumpchesting that “my tribe is better than yours” What the FUCK? Are we seriously even contemplating these things or are we kidding. How are we going to think globally if we cant even think locally? How do you even begin to embrace beyond kenyan borders if by the time you set out to do that you are not fully and 100% Kenyan?

    Being proud of one’s culture and tribalism are two very very differnt things!!! I am proud of traditions passed on to me by my grandparents, I am proud of my roots, to not be alienated, to uphold values of generosity and a regard for family…..that, has nothing, nothing to do with specific tribe. Sure yes, some practices are exclusive to some tribes, but evryone has a tribe, and that tribe has a culture, and we need to depart from the tribe, take the culture we want to keep, and make the move towards being Kenyan.
    So yes, you can divorce people form their tribe and leave them their culture. Celebrating heritage is celebrating culture, the values, the norms…celebrating the diversity of where we come from. And since everyone comes from their different culture, that is what the celebration is about. Once again…we are not celebrating the bloody tribe, we are celebrating the practices of the tribe.

    How in hell does celebrating that culture then, say, I celebrating the fact that to marry me a man will need to take 1 or 70 cows to my parents….how in hell is that a basis for whether I get voted into parliament or not? How?

    I fail at eloquence, but what I mean to say is, if you feel the need to keep identifying yourslef by your tribe, if you find yourself judging people by their tribe instead of their character and integrity, according favors to some and leaving out others by virtue of their tribe, something is wrong with you. Something gross is wrong with you. Something retarded is up with you. If you are even making decisons, revolutional decisions such as who to vote, what direction you are going to propel the country towards, based on someone’s tribe….YOU NEED TO SEE SOMEONE ABOUT THAT!!!

    Shi, I can understand the fact that you feel bitterly about say, discrimination at work. And I feel it with you because those are exactly the same mindsets that we need to change. To the point where, even your own child will not get preference over a more reliable and qualified nondescript, but you must realise that the cahneg has to begin somewhere, with you, chosing to see yourself as Kenyan first, without losing the gist of who you are.
    And the minute you say Kibaki is the better devil to Raila, you need to substantiate that with ONLY what he ahs or has not done, and at no point should tribe come into play. At NO time. The minute ‘Luo’ or ‘Kikuyu’ comes into the jsutification, then you are arguing from a flawed perspective. Its another thing altogether that none of them deserves to be there by virtue of the disappointments they have all handed us, but is that not what your vote next year is meant to communicate?

    I just came to say Hallo M.
    Hallo M.

  • M

    Young Joseph, better known to his friends as Joe, is an Oracle of some note.

    If you read his various comments here, and then go over to his blog, you will find a post from him where he holds forth his wisdom on the vice of tribalsim. The first line is priceless.

    In case he deletes it I will share it here with you:

    This is the wisdom Joe starts off with

    Yesterday i had one or two heated conversations about tribalism in kenya.

    It seems that tribalism is on the rise there …

    Tears of laughter are streaming from my eyes. Tears of laughter

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    OH PLEASE !I wouldnt delete my blog even for you M. i tried resoning and having a frank conversation but you would have none of it .you are the one who started the insults ,anyone reading the comments can see that .ALL THIS TALK…do something if you are going to do it

    I agree entirely with you my son. Given the level of aptitude you have displayed, tried indeed is the appropriate word. Given your rudimentary equipment for the task.

    With reference to your fascinating post, the contrast between that post and your comments here can be appreciated best in Matthew 7:3

    Remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will see clearly to remove the splinter from your brother’s eye. …

    Anyway, since you are lowering the quality of discussion here this is the last response you will get out of me.

    Adios!

  • http://mywordsonly.blogspot.com acolyte

    Damn this is better than the movies! I knew it was only a matter of time before Joe cracked!

    He he! And how!!

    But on a serious note, is anyone reading what M or the other person is saying before replying? I think we have gotten to a point where people are talking at cross purposes or shouting each other down.

    We have played into our politicians’ tribal politics at the expense of national progress and it is very very sad. I think KM has said it very well.

  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    To be on the fence and watch as drama unfolds is wonderful. Okay I’m done following the circus. Lets be serious, why are we attacking Joe vehemently like that. First of, the term that Joe uses on superiority I believe he meant from anthropological point of view

    To explain it from a pre-colonial era and the trickle down effect thereafter. Now he didn’t mean to say that Kikuyu blood is sweeter than Luos or any of that as some contributors are insinuating.

    If you look at pre-colonial Kenya, it is true some tribes were more structured politically, economically, socially and culturally superior than others and that determined their survival pre and post colonial era.

    The very fact that some tribes DID exist at point x in time is testament to their survival. No one is exempt from Darwinism. If a tribe x and tribe y survived until now, I fail to see how one is superior to the other!

    Some tribes were more accessible to education, business acumen, et al than others post colonial era thus rendering them economically and politically powerful.

    Eeh? Whatever do you mean? Ati more accessible to business acumen??!!

    Some tribes too due to the sufferings during colonial era, they formed a strong bond of looking after each other and thus up to date, there is that camaraderie that still exists and thus has concentrated the power to themselves and naturally they came from the same tribe. Now, is it wrong for them to shun the others out? Yes/no depending on how you look at it. Do the member of that particular tribe benefits from the small group of powerful people, HELL NO! So generalizing one tribe for the actions of the others is just wrong and thus the person casting that stone on a tribe based on the actions of a few is no better !

    Now, is it wrong for them to shun the others out? Yes/no depending on how you look at it

    I’m dying to hear you elaborate this one. When is it Ok to shun the others?

    To me the debate is not about the tribes but rather the economic /power imbalance is what creates the so called tribalism because I know for a fact a kikuyu and a Luo in Mathare slums will take a bullet for each other any day. And a Luo living in Nyeri is seen as a neighbor by his kyuk neighbor than is seen as Luo. Well I think we need to hold all the leaders accountable for they are the ones in quest to gain favor from their people who create the “superiority /inferiority complex” of a tribe.

    We also need to embrace the uniqueness of each tribe and understand that each prides itself for what they are and no matter how many times we say we are all the same, no we are not because culturally we all have different experiences. We all need to understand these differences and to understand that if for all these years we have co-existed , then why are we creating a non – existence tribal war when it is all comes down to what I said before Economic Imbalance. That is what we should be addressing, the causes and solutions. Otherwise even within the tribe, there is internal fighting between the haves and the have nots!

    Disclaimer: I think we need to critically analyze each comment without going an all out attack, embrace the good points as well otherwise the one sided attack is in bad taste. Acknowledging a good point from your opponent speaks very loud about a leader!

    Eh! Maybe it is the fact that i am chewing gum that is obscuring what I am saying. How many times have I said that pride in one’s roots and heritage is perfectly ok as long as you do not think you are above the others?
  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    Also if I had a business and I wanted it to prosper, I would perhaps hire someone who is close to me , a friend I trust , who speaks the same language etc. There is tendency to assume trust based on those I guess superficial reasons. Read “MyLife” Bill Clinton and who he put in office when he came in power …….. He didn’t go all out to recruit his staff from unknown ,so maybe that is what Joe was talkin about. Eisshhh!!

    Uh huh! And if it’s Ok for Clinton to do this then it’s OK for us???
  • http://mywordsonly.blogspot.com acolyte

    Irena you started out well but unfortunately you stumbled,

    If you look at pre-colonial Kenya, it is true some tribes were more structured politically, economically, socially and culturally superior than others and that determined their survival pre and post colonial era.

    Many tribes ended up having more because they came from areas that had more natural resources and they took advantage of it and as time went by they carried on this exploratory and entrepreneurial mindset. Let me tell you if you took Kikuyus from the fertile highlands and took them to the impoverished Northern Kenya pre-independance they would be just as poor as the people who live there now and would even have the same mindset. No culture is superior, culture develops in response to the circumstances it finds itself in.

    But I do agree with you that we need to acknowledge our diversity and embrace it, instead of letting it divide us.

    Which was the moral of my post. If we are unable to use our cultural diversity positively, what use do we benefit from it?
  • Jean

    Irena & Joe …. If you kick a tiger in the ass you’d better have a plan for dealing with its teeth.

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    A simple illustration.

    This whole thing about tribalism is fast degenerating into what Hon .Michuki termed a danger to state security. What was a frank discussion is now clearly promoting tribal animosity .I just hope that when M gets picked up he has a good lawyer.

    The point I was trying to get across put simply is this .Kenya is like a marriage. When a couple comes together they come together as a man and a woman. bring the different qualities that make them as individuals but working together to make the marriage work. The marriage can’t work if both parties disregard that they are different and have different roles. It is this differences and the harnessing of the differences that makes the marriage work. The same thing applies to Kenya. Some people say we should do away with tribe and just be Kenyans .other like myself say first be proud of yourself and your community and bring that same love and contribute to Kenya. A famous pastor once said you have to be a complete man before you can go looking to settle down with a wife.

    The same applies to Kenya. Be proud of where you come from .Then bring that to the table and contribute to nation building .diversity is not a disadvantage. It is a gift that should be harnessed .be proud of your community and your people. It is only those with narrow minds who equate pride in tribal heritage to mean a dislike for all others.

    I will always be proud of my heritage .I hope you can be proud of yours

  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    Acolyte & Whoever: I do not need accolades for what is my opinion.

  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    “Let me tell you if you took Kikuyus from the fertile highlands and took them to the impoverished Northern Kenya pre-independance they would be just as poor as the people who live there now and would even have the same mindset. No culture is superior, culture develops in response to the circumstances it finds itself in”

    Acolyte: Maybe some are more innovative+ have better survival skills than others thus rendering themselves superior N.Eastern or no N.Eastern analogy.

    Maybe it’s just me, but I’ve never bought the argument that x has more business acumen / brains / etc than Y because his folks were born North/South/West/Eest of the Chania…

    Sometimes it is not all a matter of geographical location otherwise maybe some areas would harness the natural resources they have to better themselves but choose not to …sijui… I could give examples but as I have been warned by Jean , let me not rattle the pythons LOL…

  • http://www.spicebear.com spicebear

    joe, no one is saying that you should turn your back on your roots. almost everyone here agrees that pride in your culture is a good thing. but when you start calling people kihii (by the way, this just makes you look tribalist) and accusing everyone of being an ODM youth winger or having an agenda or kikuyu bashing it makes it that much harder to understand where you are coming from or what you are trying to say.

    Joe has had an exhausting Yom Kippur. We should cut the boy some slack.
  • http://chondima.blogspot.com Sarah

    Allow me to digress, Irena where is your blog.. apparently you have elected to delete it, I was very interested in reading it. And this question is just a question, no hidden agenda.
    Thank you :-)

  • http://mywordsonly.blogspot.com acolyte

    Okay Irena,
    Let me run with your agruement
    “Acolyte: Maybe some are more innovative+ have better survival skills than others thus rendering themselves superior N.Eastern or no N.Eastern analogy.”
    Since you have rejected my arguement that culture often develops as a response to environment we must assume that it is inbred and genetic. This means that those who live in the highlands are of a far superior genetic stock than their poor neighbours up North.
    So what about those who live in the highlands and are poor? Hmmmmmm they must have been of lesser genetic stock or even worse they must have mated with those other genetically inferior tribes?
    I could go on building on this but I don’t want to give some muppet out there a platform for ethnic cleansing…………..

  • http://chondima.blogspot.com Sarah

    I agree with Aco, Man is man….. and we all have the potential to suceed in whatever we want to become or fail miserably regardless of where you are from. This has nothing to do with tribe, whatever view we take. At birth opportunities might vary not because of your tribe but because of the environment and circumstances. For example, not all children from rich parents suceed in life even with everything handed to them and not all children from poor families end up poor… There are two basic arguments but please note that none mention tribe or certain geographical regions.

    “Nature versus nurture is a shorthand expression for debates about the relative importance of an individual’s innate qualities (“nature”) versus personal experiences (“nurture”) in determining or causing individual differences in physical and behavioral traits. Nativism is the view that certain skills or abilities are ‘native’ or hard wired into the brain at birth. This is in contrast to the ‘blank slate’ or tabula rasa view which states that the brain has little innate ability and almost everything is learned through interaction with the environment”.

    Source : Wikipedia

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    come on aco i think we all know that irena is talking about genetic predisposition key word “predisposition” she hasnt claimed genetic exclusivity to acumen.i do however agree with the point that Predisposition(ability) -the capacity we are born with/learn things can be blocked by Negative environmental influences.

    it is exactlythe lark of those environmental factors (education/land/capital/proximity/etc)that made may say some tribes may be superior than others (even though M has taken it to himself to say that i categorically said i was superior)

  • http://mywordsonly.blogspot.com acolyte

    So Joe, with these words;
    come on aco i think we all know that irena is talking about genetic predisposition key word “predisposition” she hasnt claimed genetic exclusivity to acumen.
    You are saying that some tribes have some gene or other that makes them more likely to suceed if placed in the right environment than others? Is this gene more prevalant in those who live in the fertile highlands than those who live in the parched reaches of Nothern Kenya?
    Also this argument goes both ways;
    the capacity we are born with/learn things can be blocked by Negative environmental influences.
    It can be argued that positive environmental influences enhances the natural abilities we have.

  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    NO ITS (disposition that is)not more prevalant in those who live in the fertile highlands than those who live in the parched reaches of Nothern Kenya. and you are right that it works both ways

    may i put it to you that all kenyans are genetical predisposed to sucess – some are more sucessful because the environment they live in,while others have been hindered by their environment there fore not making them equal i.e meaning one is superior i think thats all that is being claimed

  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    Thinker : You can interprete my points/opinions/not so intelectual way of putting my point across they way you want but I’m sure you get my point… Perhaps not all of us can eloquently put a point across but your “darwinism theory” is not what I was referring to Thinker!!! to clarify my “survival” point but hey again you can look at it the way you want.

    Also my business acumen referral does not mean the way you want to potray it but again you and your followers can say it better than I can, to get the point home .

    He he! My, aren’t we tetchy! Which other way is there to portray business acumen? How many other ways is there to interpret business acumen other than (with the aid of a quick google) “linking an insightful assessment of the external business landscape with the keen awareness of how money can be made”

    And now I have followers? LOL! =)) Mko wapi! Your leader is tired of walking!

    Your style of attacking those who oppose certain points or those stand on their opinion or painfully trying to communicate in Queen’s English is rather tasteless. I’m surprised and again I’m not on the way you counter-attack arguments and other people’s opinion as if yours is better off than others. I repeated what you were saying but may I say you are not the first or the last to talk about tribal issues and any other issues affecting Kenya in your blog or any other forum , so quit your sheepish comment “I’m chewing gum” crap!

    I can’t help your surprise. There is nothing wrong with counter-attacking arguments. If they cannot stand up to scruity what does that say about them? And what relevance is Queen’s English or lack thereof? If you are expecting me to apologize to you for asking you to substantiating the claims that have made, join the queue. You will be a while. If you feel threatened by a challenge to back up your claims … what can I say?

    Why can’t you dismiss other people’s opinion in gentlemanly manner like Acolyte does most times( acolyte do not hate me , I still have much wendo for you..lol) without egoistically trying to put down other people’s comment whether you agree with them or not. Again, I do not need your accolades or you to agree with me on my points on this discussion but stop behaving as if we should all agree with you !If you do not understand the point one was putting across simply ask one to substantiate. That is what a healthy discussion is all about .

    I have not forced my opinion on anyone. I have a perfect right to express myself on my own blog in any way I see fit. I’m sorry of you don’t like the way I put my points across.

    Joe or anyone for that matter has a right to their opinion however crude or however unimaginable !!! If you do not want us to disagree with you or have different opinions , then switch off your comment section!

    And no one has been denied their opinions. Even their insults. Again — I’m sorry but I’m not going apologize to you or to anyone for asking you to substantiate your claims! You reserve your right to disagree with me. Also reserve mine to disagree with you.

    @Sarah: Pole, been extremely busy to blog anymore !

  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    Acolyte: I didn’t mention any tribe or any geographical area and generic superiority in my argument so do not put words in my mouth but again I wonder what you were referring to?

  • http://www.vituvingisana.blogspot.com VituVingiSana

    Wow… to think I missed all this drama Its a Tribal Thang starring M, Joe, Shiroh & a stellar blogging cast!

    Alternate titles:
    Baby, its not you its just Tribal
    Kenyans – The Ignorami

    Also walk-on roles for kibz (as winnie the pooh), michuki (as QRU watchie), raira, wako (as eeyore), etc…

    After reading Shiroh’s arguments to SUPPORT tribalism… why do we get our knickers in a knot when Jungus hire Jungus OR Wahindis hire Wahindis?
    Isn’t that racist? Isn’t it wrong? But when Shiroh does the same its OK?

    In any case, the government is NOT a private business & it has NO right to hire from “special” tribes only… Hire the best…

    As far as Joe… my oh my, kihii??? Are we getting testy ala michuki? For all your arguments, the kihii comment reveals your true nature. All the posturing, arguments, logic & sense washed away by one little word!

    =)) I’m waiting for someone to ask me how Joe can know whether I am a kihii or not … These are not the sort of questions that will augur well for me if ever I was to run for public office!
  • http://www.nmjoe.blogspot.com joe

    Let IT be washed away. Incidental i have noted your failure to inform others that it was M who began the insults. (by the way calling an uncircumsized man a kihii is not an insult it is simply stating the facts as they are). how this makes me a tribalist i will await your comments.

    My son, how, pray tell how do you know whether I am circumcised or not?

    As for ODM YOUTH WINGERS -go back through the history of M’s blog from way back during the referendum you will encounter post after post castigating the government and promoting odm. even M himself is not refusing he is an ODM-YW.I just think he wasn’t expecting the gloves to finaly come off .

    Yes. Go through this blog and show me where I am promoting ODM. Please! As for your gloves coming off … are they off yet?

    it shouldn’t surprise you that tribal clashes are breaking out in kenya and these blogers are blogging about tribalism 12 month to elections .it is because they dont want you to ask the hard questions like what their policies are .they want you caught up in this rubbish of tribalism that does not even exsist. but is tailored to discredit and create anymosity towards the government.the only misculculation they have made is that this is not about oranges and bananas this is about kenyans all kenyans.

    Yep. I’m blogging about tribalism because I don’t want people to discuss it. Right. I want you to “get caught caught up in this rubbish of tribalism that does not even exsist”, the one you said in your blog does. Right. You got me there. Guilty.

    i have through this post ask M to name names ,to stop talking in general terms and give us details of those who are making other communities poor etc yet he has not .why ?is he just singing a mantra from odm leadership or talking about facts.untill he can answer these questions.i suggest you go through this whole post and read evey comment carefully as irena posted and make an informed choice on what it is we are saying and what it is M is saying

    Please do. In all this chaff I dare say there is some wheat.
  • http://www.wanjiru.wordpress.com Irena

    :”If you feel threatened by a challenge to back up your claims … what can I say?” Threatened by you , please my dear do not flatter yourself, I only do not have time to populate your blog with my thoughts. I did so in mine when I used to blog. You or anyone else cannot threaten me . I’m not one of those you intimidate . I think it is vice versa that the fact that someone does not agree with you , you feel threatened hence why you attack with insult first typical of …. I will not join the queue, you views or your self importance is not that important to me.

    “I’m sorry but I’m not going apologize to you or to anyone for asking you to substantiate your claims! You reserve your right to disagree with me. Also reserve mine to disagree with you”

    I didn’t ask for apologies , why should you even think it? I would care less whether you agree with me or not and it is your blog you can do whatever you wish since you have your comment opne for all then I reserve to say whatever… so I think on that we agree.

    “linking an insightful assessment of the external business landscape with the keen awareness of how money can be made” –
    I ‘m sure you are good with googling , and I can assure you I know all about that BEYOND GOOGLE DEFINITION! a nd ccan offer a comprehensive insight on that .. please spare me the intimidation and your all the almighty Thinker approach. I for one have no time for your recycled materials that you callyour ideas . With that sina hiyo saa kwa sababu I have my BUSINESS to take care of… ciao amigo!

    There being no other business, and Irene having her own business, the owner of the recycled materials he calls his ideas had another (unoriginal) idea and adjourned for tea and biscuits
  • Anon

    Dude, as one of your BIGGEST fan I have to come out of the woodwork and unleash my hat for a true master.

    You know just how to hustle and tease people into coming out of their cocoons. They think they are arguing with you but they end up revealing themselves and discussing it amongst themselves! Just like the diaspora drama you anzad.

    94 comments and counting? Dude … Nuff respect (M)achiavelli (sp?). Nuff respect!!!

  • http://www.vituvingisana.blogspot.com VituVingiSana

    Whoa, on the lighter side following M’s lead…
    Joe, how do you know if M is a kihii or not? Peekaboo, I see you???

    M- you better be careful when you use the gym showers coz there are some dude/ss (wannabe dudette/s) who are checking your,um, hanger… In any case, you shouldn’t be hanging your f***skin out to dry like that coz u might be causing (name withheld) to go all krazy over you!

    Me thinks M will cause (name withheld) to blow a fuse… soon!

    Peace out!
    95 & counting…

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    Obviously this discussion has taken the wrong turn.

    I will state, in blogland there are no permanent enemies

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    After reading Shiroh’s arguments to SUPPORT tribalism… why do we get our knickers in a knot when Jungus hire Jungus OR Wahindis hire Wahindis?
    Isn’t that racist? Isn’t it wrong? But when Shiroh does the same its OK?

    @Vitu Vingi Sana

    I do not support tribalism (Wrong) but unlike you i am not A SOPHISTICATED person who refuses to accept that tribalism does exist. And to me, the reasons why tribalism exist are simple, people (as corrected) think they can trust their tribesmen and they associate with them for a long time.

    I hope i don’t have to answer anyone else.

  • http://www.sylkwan.blogspot.com Shiroh

    This is getting interesting.

    Here they are fighting about tribes

    On Kumekucha there are fighting about being kenyan/Tanzanian

    http://kumekucha.blogspot.com/2006/09/bush-discusses-instability-in-kenya.html

  • http://chrenyan.wordpress.com Chrenyan

    I ask to be allowed to register some slight puzzlement at reading Joe on M’s blog saying “this rubbish of tribalism that does not even exist” and then reading Joe on Joe’s blog saying tribalism is on the rise here in Kenya.

    That aside, Joe, let me say this in the most friendly, most reconciling way I know how.

    M is not an ODM-K youth winger. This is why I posted a comment on the veritable gulf that exists between being unhappy with the Government and being happy with ODM-K. There is an ocean in between. ODM-K would have you think there isn’t, but there is. Don’t be tricked by ODM. Just try and see M as a Kenyan unhappy with the phrase ‘positive tribalism’. I believe that is all you can divine from his post and subsequent comments. It is long, long way from there to “Kikuyu-bashing”.

    What would you say if you knew that M was, in fact, circumsized? Perhaps a large platform of your arguments against M would simply dissolve, wouldn’t they? Especially a certain one-word, five-letter argument that has been dissected at length…

    This last point leads on to the question that I was sorry to have to ask in my first ka-comment: “Why on earth should it even matter?”